The Ultimate Step-by-Step Wedding Planning Guide for Our Venue

Planning your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn is an exciting journey filled with unforgettable moments. Our venue, nestled within the grounds of a centuries-old castle, offers a blend of rustic charm and modern elegance—ideal for creating your perfect day. From the initial planning stages to the final farewell, we’re here to ensure every detail is managed seamlessly. Let’s walk through each step of planning your dream wedding at our venue.

Initial Steps to Planning Your Wedding

How do I contact the venue?

Reaching out to us is simple and stress-free. We’ll work closely with you to understand your vision, preferences, and important details about your day. Contacting us early ensures your ideal date and package are available. Don’t worry—if you’re still exploring dates, we’ll provide flexible options to suit your schedule. Get in touch via phone or email, and we’ll start bringing your wedding day to life.

When should I set the date?

We recommend securing your wedding date as soon as possible, especially during peak seasons. Spring and summer weekends are particularly popular, so it’s best to book early to avoid disappointment. If you’re considering a winter wedding, you’ll benefit from fewer date constraints and the possibility of reduced rates. Our team is happy to guide you through available dates and help you select the one that’s perfect for your celebration.

Budgeting and Finance

How do I set a realistic wedding budget?

Setting a budget is one of the most important steps in planning your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn. To help you stay on track, we recommend breaking your budget into key categories: venue hire, catering, entertainment, and extras. Start by prioritising the elements that matter most to you, and don’t forget to leave a little flexibility for last-minute adjustments. Our team will provide a detailed breakdown of costs to ensure you can plan confidently without any surprises.

What are the key costs and fees?

At Cooling Castle Barn, we offer transparent pricing so you know exactly what to expect. The main costs to consider include:

  • Venue hire: This includes exclusive use of our barn and surrounding areas.
  • Catering: Choose from our range of bespoke menu options.
  • Entertainment: Whether it’s a DJ or live band, we’ll help you plan an unforgettable party.
  • Additional extras: Optional elements like décor, photography, and flowers can also be arranged.

We pride ourselves on offering excellent value for money, and our team is here to guide you through every aspect of the budgeting process. By working with you closely, we’ll ensure your wedding remains both magical and manageable.

Guest List and Invitations

How do I create the perfect guest list?

Creating your guest list can be one of the most challenging parts of planning your wedding. Start by writing down your must-have attendees—those people you couldn’t imagine celebrating without. Once you’ve established your core group, add in other friends, family, and colleagues to suit your venue’s capacity. Cooling Castle Barn comfortably accommodates both intimate gatherings and larger celebrations, so you have the flexibility to plan your day just as you envision it.

When should I send out invitations?

Timing is crucial when it comes to wedding invitations. We recommend sending out your invitations six to eight months in advance, especially if you have guests travelling from afar. Make sure to include details about accommodations, particularly if guests are staying at our venue, where we offer 15 beautifully designed bedrooms on-site. This allows them to fully immerse themselves in your celebration without the hassle of travelling back and forth.

Suppliers and Services

Can I bring in outside suppliers for my wedding at your venue?

We understand that every couple has their own vision, and sometimes that means working with suppliers you know and love. While we have a trusted network of suppliers who know our venue inside out, we’re happy to accommodate outside suppliers too. We’ll collaborate seamlessly to ensure your day is exactly how you want it.

How do I book essential services?

Booking essential services early is key to ensuring everything runs smoothly on your wedding day. Here’s a checklist to guide you:

  • Photographer and videographer: Capture every special moment with professionals who align with your style.
  • Entertainment: Choose between live bands, DJs, or even unique entertainment options for your reception.
  • Florist and décor: Bring your wedding vision to life with personalised floral arrangements and décor options.

Once you’ve booked these services, we’ll liaise directly with your suppliers to make sure everything is perfectly coordinated on the day.

Wedding Decor and Theme

What decor options are available at your venue?

Cooling Castle Barn offers a versatile backdrop that can be transformed to match any wedding theme or style. Our high-beamed Tithe Barn serves as the perfect canvas, whether you prefer a minimalist look or something more extravagant. We offer bespoke décor packages, or you’re welcome to bring in your own unique touches. From romantic lighting to bold floral arrangements, we’ll help you create a space that feels completely personal.

How do I create a cohesive theme?

Creating a cohesive theme is all about consistency. Start by selecting a colour palette that complements your vision, and then carry it through to elements like table settings, flowers, and stationery. Our wedding coordinators are here to guide you, ensuring that every detail, from the ceremony to the reception, ties together beautifully. It’s all about weaving your personality into every aspect of the day.

Ceremony and Reception

How do I plan the ceremony at your venue?

Planning your ceremony at Cooling Castle Barn is a personalised experience. Our team will guide you through every detail, from seating arrangements to music choices, ensuring everything reflects your style. Whether you’re planning a traditional ceremony or something more contemporary, our flexible setup allows you to design a day that feels uniquely yours. We offer both indoor and outdoor ceremony options, each one framed by the stunning historic setting of the barn and castle grounds.

What reception details should I organise?

Your reception is the time to celebrate with your loved ones, and we’re here to make sure it’s everything you’ve dreamed of. When planning your reception, consider these key elements:

  • Seating plan: Create a seating arrangement that fosters conversation and comfort.
  • Menu selection: Choose from our bespoke catering options to suit your tastes.
  • Entertainment: Whether it’s a DJ, live band, or unique entertainment, we’ll help you create the perfect atmosphere.

Our team will help you coordinate all of these details, ensuring your reception flows smoothly, so you can enjoy your day without any worries.

Accommodations and Transportation

How do I book accommodations for my guests?

One of the great advantages of hosting your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn is the convenience of on-site accommodation. We offer 15 beautifully designed bedrooms, allowing your guests to stay close and enjoy every moment of the celebration. It’s best to reserve these rooms as early as possible, especially for larger weddings. We also provide you with a list of recommended local hotels for additional guests, ensuring everyone has a comfortable place to stay.

How do I arrange transportation for my wedding day?

Arranging transportation is a key part of ensuring your day runs smoothly. Many couples choose to organise shuttle services for guests staying at nearby hotels. If you’re looking for a grand entrance, we can help you coordinate transportation for you and your wedding party—whether it’s a classic car or something more unique. Our team is here to assist with all logistics, ensuring seamless transport for you and your guests throughout the day.

Day-of Coordination

How do I create a detailed timeline for my wedding day?

Creating a timeline is essential to keeping your wedding day stress-free and organised. Our experienced coordinators will work with you to plan every detail, ensuring each moment of the day is perfectly timed. Key milestones to include are:

  • Getting ready: Plan enough time for hair, makeup, and those special pre-ceremony moments.
  • The ceremony: We’ll help you schedule the processional, vows, and signing of the register.
  • Reception activities: Think about the timing for toasts, dinner, and your first dance.

We’ll assist in creating a timeline that’s both practical and flexible, allowing you to focus on enjoying your day while we take care of the details.

Who should I assign tasks to?

While our team is here to oversee everything, it’s helpful to delegate a few key tasks to family members or close friends. Consider assigning someone to manage the guest book or coordinate with suppliers on the day. You’ll also want someone you trust to be the point of contact for any last-minute questions. By delegating these responsibilities, you can relax and enjoy the day knowing everything is under control.

Step-by-Step Guide to Planning a Wedding at Our Venue

Planning your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn is designed to be a straightforward and enjoyable experience. Here’s a quick overview of the main steps you’ll take:

  • Contact our team: We’ll discuss your vision and check availability for your preferred dates.
  • Secure your date: Book your wedding date as early as possible, especially during peak seasons.
  • Organise suppliers: Whether you use our trusted network or bring in your own, we’ll help coordinate your suppliers.
  • Plan your day: From the ceremony to the reception, we’ll guide you through every step of the planning process.
  • Relax and enjoy: On your wedding day, you can rest easy knowing our team will handle all the details so you can focus on celebrating.

Planning your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn is a collaborative experience, with our dedicated Wedding Coordinators working alongside you to make your vision a reality. From managing logistics to fine-tuning the details, their expertise ensures a seamless planning journey. To learn more about how our coordinators bring your unique wedding ideas to life, read our article Meet Our Wedding Coordinators: Bring Your Vision to Life.

Meet Our Wedding Coordinators

Our team of experienced wedding coordinators is dedicated to making your day as special as possible. From the moment you book your date, they’ll be by your side, offering expert advice and guidance. Whether you need help choosing suppliers, designing your decor, or creating a timeline, they’ll ensure every detail is handled with care.

We believe every couple deserves a wedding that reflects their unique story. That’s why our coordinators focus on personalising every aspect of your day, ensuring your wedding is a true reflection of your style and vision. With decades of experience, our team is here to bring your ideas to life, no matter how big or small.

On the day itself, your dedicated Wedding Coordinator will be discreetly overseeing the event, ensuring everything runs smoothly while you enjoy every moment with your guests. With Cooling Castle Barn, you can relax knowing your wedding is in expert hands.

Your Wedding, Your Way: A Journey Starts Here

Your wedding at Cooling Castle Barn will be a day to remember, filled with love, laughter, and beautiful moments. From the planning stages to the final dance, every detail will be taken care of by our expert team, ensuring your day is exactly as you envisioned.

What will make your wedding truly unique? With our stunning venue and dedicated Wedding Coordinators, the possibilities are endless. Imagine celebrating your special day surrounded by friends and family, in a space that reflects your personal style and vision.

Let’s start planning your dream wedding together. Contact our Wedding Coordinators today to learn more about how we can bring your vision to life at Cooling Castle Barn.